Rinki Khanna

Embracing Change: your path to better Tomorrow

Hello Readers! Welcome back. I hope you are doing well and are in great health. So, here I am with another blog, Embracing Change.

Change means to become different or to make something/someone different. Oprah Winfrey has said, The greatest discovery of all time is that a person can change his future by merely changing his attitude. This quote summarizes this whole blog, A change in oneself can open the door of opportunities, and to be a new version of self.

Season changes within the span of 2 to 3 months, our lifestyle changes within every five years. Nowadays, fashion changes every week. Change is inevitable and it is the only constant thing in the world. This blog about how to embrace those changes.

When two people get married, a tag of being married is not just added to their relationship status but there are many changes like food habits, opinions, shifting to a new city, moving from joint family to neuclear or vice versa, there are plenty of things. But do we not adjust, accept and change. We do.

Being afraid of that change is obvious but when the cycle starts you start getting comfortable with it. So, here is my story, a month ago I left my home and shifted to another city for my job. I was living with a joint family and now, at a place where I know very few people. I have family and friends in the city but living on my own was something ,i was always scared of. On the other hand, the excitement of going out, getting a job in a different city was something constant. I am on a beautiful journey of embracing my own mistakes and learning from them.

I know many of you are going with the same change, you might get upset or irritated at some point of time but just calm yourself. You are a human being, and you will make many mistakes, just take a breath- learn from it and try not to repeat it again- The mantra I am learning. Be humble to yourself and learn to forgive yourself.

At last, embrace every phase of your life. You might feel nervous but once you are into it you will love it.

I hope you enjoyed reading. Stay tuned. Have a nice day.

– Rinki

New Beginnings: blank 365 pages of another chapter

Hey readers! Hope you all are doing great. Happy New Year!

2023 a very crucial year for everyone, someone is having their boards, someone applying for new college, someone would get a new job, someone is getting married, someone is going to have a baby. Big Year!

We all make resolutions and yeah last week we all have followed the same. First week of the new year with all new you. But in reality year starts from the very next week which is today(9/01/2023), where we have forget our resolutions, our new us challenge. It all seems fade. I am not saying one should have big resolutions with yourself like waking up at 5 in the morning and hitting the gym for an hour. Don’t push yourself into something what you are not able to do or what your body does’nt allow you to do. You can still wake at 8’o clock and you can go for 10 mins run to make yourself fit.

The logic behind this new beginning is to be consistent, small steps take the big leap. Your consistency for the next 356 days(9 days are gone) should be consistent with your small steps. This is your year, your capabilities, your struggle and your results you don’t need it to compare it with what your neighbour or your friend is doing like how much they are investing and what are they doing. This year is your canvas paint it according to your choice.

I hope the rest 356 days of your year would your handwritten and not influenced by others.

This is all from this mini blog will soon update you with new exciting topics.

Have a nice day!

Rinki

Failure: Has it become a stumbling block?

Hey readers, I hope you all are fine . I am back with an another blog after a very long time with a very interesting topic. Have you listened to the success stories of big billionaries, every time an interviewer asks them What is your success story? Or How far you have come? Does someone ever asked How many times you failed? I have never heard that. Failures are path to success as every other philospher would define it.

If we go by dictionary, Failure is the feeling or a phase which occurs when after all of our efforts we could’nt attain that thing or position. It is not an easy thing to move towards our goals, you step, fail and come back again with a new strategy to step up again.

I know, you all would be thinking that this is what everyone tell us, what is new? The new thing is when we fail, we think we are done with it or this is not for me. I can’t do this. We make it our own stumbling block. We stop there after one or two moves only. And the other thing that happens is,There are manier the times when people around you makes you feel more bad about your failures and that destroys your mental peace, I totally understand that thing. But my question to you is that Will they help you out in your career? I know your answer is NO.

The things that blocks your way to success is lack of willpower, other person’s opinion is greater to you than your own thinking and your low patience level. Thomas A. Edison has failed 1,000 times before doing a great invention of light bulb, and in every interview he has said ‘I did’nt fail 1000 times, I found 1000 steps to invent light bulb.‘ Upon asking that how you felt about failing? One should have this kind of attitude and patience level. You would make up to it one day.

I have seen people around me stepping back just because they are failing in every step. I would just recommend you, Just Go On With It, you will see results one day. Find diffrent ways but don’t stop. Because Rome was not built in a day.

Thank You and I would be soon there to meet you with another interesting topic.

Rinki Khanna

Have a great day.

End Of Kalyug: My Version of it.

Hey there, how are you all readers? I hope everyone is fine, happy and healthy. To the old readers I know it has been a very very long time to bring a piece of my thought amongst you all. Well, today it is not something pscyological but I can say spiritual and futuristic.

You can guess this by reading the title only that I am going to share about my version of how kalyug will end. Recently, i watched a youtue shorts of The Ranveer Show (beerbiceps) where he was interviewing Amogh Lila Prabhu. He(Ranveer) asked him about the kalyug? where he says ofcourse it started around 3102 B.C. Well according to him we are at transitioning phase i.e. we are in the golden era of Kalyug where we are religious, spiritual, divine, humans with humanity. It is just the beginning phase of it because it has only been 5,000 years and the end of this yug is 4,27,000 years away. We are still transfering from Dwaparyug to Kalyug. But then there came a suprise he said after 10,000 years of this phase, the Ghor Kalyug would start. It would begin with an Acid Rain which would destroy all vegetation, now a man would survive on another man. Yes, we would become Cannibles: a Man-eater Monster, the rise of Kali purush would take place, the strongest demon on the earth ever. To save us from this monster 11th Avatar of Shri Narayana as Kalki would happen.

This is all fascinating and like a story.But this is not a story this is going to happen and what i see around myself is like seeds are being sowed. Everything around ourselves is crime, deaths, conspiracies, Greed and what not. Its just a beginning.

All these facts and Purans, Epics are very near to me. From my Childhood only, i was very curious to know about everything. I had the biggest interest in our Epics, how everything started, how and why things happened, What could have changed? They are not a stories but a reality which has brought so many lessons to us.Even Science has too proved many facts that these Epics have happened. This is something which brings values in us, which cures us from our pain, our problems and led us to the solution.

Coming back to the topic, What would be the thing alike? I think that Kali Purash– the strongest Demon would lie within oneself only. He would not be in flesh and bone but will be in the mind of humans. People would be full of negativity, there would be no spirituality which would take them towards the right path or make them understand the difference between right and wrong. This demon would be the strongest and the baddest one to exists. The greed would increase so far that man would eat another man like Cannibles. To reach at top one would do anything. There would be no fairness in work. No humanity nothing. Wickedness and Evilness would define one person. Money, Power and Greed would rule people’s heart.

God Kalki‘s birth would take place when things would be at their lowest. It would be like, now no one can imagine any good things around themself. Now the question or say I doubt that I hold is would it be a divine light or real person as Kalki ji. Well, that would be in future but what I imagine is that this avatar would kill the demon lying in people’s mind and would take this yug towards the end. A new era would be started thereafter. Rebirth of the mother Earth would take place.

I am not forming stories or leading this towards a fiction. But after reading religious books and listening to many religious facts. This is what I concluded. Things in the future would be different, Definatily it would be.

I would love read your thoughts upon it, your views on this. Take it as a perspective of mine.

Thank You!

Happy Reading!!

Rinki

The Disturbing Time- we all are going through.

Hello Readers,

I hope you all are at sound place. In your good health and mostly important safe. Today, we all are going through this tough phase. People around us are dying, are helpless, running for oxygen. Though we have got the vaccines and soon it would be available to all adults. But still the environment around us is stressful and disturbing.

I am not a healer or this blog is not about giving you motivational quotes but to give you calmness. I know how shattered this deadly virus has made us. It not only harm us physically but mentally also. Here through this blog, whomsoever is reading I urge you to have mental peace. Do meditation and yoga regularly. If you fell stress talk to your family, friends, try to understand each other’s pain. Even the patients too. Don’t leave them alone talk to them. Listen to soothing music, sing Gayatri Mantra whenever you feel low. Listen/read Mahamrityunjay Jaap or Hanuman Chalisa. Have faith. If you are Atheist, meditate, read good books, watch that makes you laugh.If you are from any other religion, read your holy books like Quran, Bible and so on. You can also read or listen Japji Sahib. And most important have sound sleep. Engage less in Covid news.

I pray that if you are having this virus or any one close to you is going through this gets well soon.

Thank You!

Rinki Khanna.

Solution: Your Every Problem Needs

Problems! Problems! Problems!

Today, everyone is dealing with problems. some have financial problems, some have job oriented problems, career problems, health problems and so on.

Hello mates! welcome back. I hope you all are doing good. Have you ever imagine getting up in the morning, You have a beautiful day. You work or study peacefully. In short you had a day where you haven’t dealt with a problem. Never na! This would be our imagination only. Well, there wouldn’t be a day if any of the problem even the tiniest one hasn’t arrived.

Its like important to have a problem in our daily life because if they wouldn’t be there we won’t know about the meaning of life, importance of people. The key point is how to deal with those problem? How you look on them? Are they big or small? and many more. It is all upto you.

I am not an influencer, or a big writer or any psychologist but i want tell you a thing which i discovered. Do you all remember word problems in Mathematics. Of course, you would there is no Math with problems. Well the point is, for every problem there was a solution. And the main point is the solution itself is hidden in the question. Yes, from reading the question twice to thrice we get to know that what solution it want subtraction, addition or division. Question itself tells us what we have to do. Similarly, there is a hidden solution in every problem. You just need to read it twice or thrice.

Hope it was worth reading for you.

Thank You!!!!

Personal Development

Hello friends! Its been two blogs that we have been friends. I hope your life and work is going well. Today you are going to read or i can say today i am going to tell you about Pesonal Development. Before starting the blog I must tell you what is development? It is a vital process of growing stonger, bigger and better. So let’s start reading.

What is Personal Development?

Personal Development is a process in which a person identifies his qualities, needs and skills and assess them together to set his goals and achieve success. It is an ongoing process, dynamic process. It changes with the change in environment. In other words, it is a personal growth which might help him in education, career, relationships, Business or self improvement. It would be helping when a person is aware of his/her goals. In short we can say that it is a planning to learn, train our vision, develop creativity, motivate ourself and others around us to achieve personal or official goals. Maslow made this easy with his renowned theory.

Maslow’s Theory

Abraham H. Maslow, an american psychologist has developed a classification of human needs which is known as ‘Hierarchy of Needs’.

Maslow has defined in this theory that an individual has some desires, some wishes. Once they are fulfilled he develops or raises his/her living standard. The needs begin from Physiological needs or basic needs of an individual( air,water,food and shelter) then his desires move to Safety needs or we can say after having basic requirements he needs security of life. Further, he needs Love or we social needs he/she would make friends would have relationships, family and well wishers. Once he is satisfied with his relationships he wishes to have status, recognition and respected by everyone. They are the esteem and ego needs. At last he is at the point of Self Actualization, a place where he wants to be. He realises that he is at the top level of his career. He judge his own potential with oneself rather than being judged by others. Maslow says that an individual develops when he himself is a competent for oneself. We all want to be in competition but personal development teaches that one should be competitive to oneself for reaching to his lifetime goal. There is no limit for growing.

Why Personal Development is Important?

Personal Development is important because it important because it develops one’s vision for oneself. It brings maturity, success and happiness in one’s life. It also lays the foundation for one’s emotional, physical, spiritual and intellectual health. It brings effect on minute things of our life. This is because we grow personally. This process brings positive vibes in our thinking and we are motivated to do new things. Generally PD makes a person happier and positive. And we are growing on personal levels so we bring change in our surroundings too. These little changes brings the biggest change in our life. We are more aware of our strengths and can grab the opportunity. One can work on Personal growth by a small thing only by saying kind words to others. This small thing will work positive in your life. You will be loving yourself and will build the confidence. This might grow into better version of yourself.

Hope this piece of work might help you.

Thanks for reading us!

Have a lovely day.

Lots of love,

Rinki khanna

Reviews for Scribbled Thoughts

Hey readers!!

Welcome back. How you all are doing?? Must be well. Thanks for showing love to my first blog. If you are new to this you can go through the page for my last blog SMILE. Today, I am going to give a review of a book Scribbled Thoughts by Sharad Raj C.

Introduction

Scribbled Thoughts is not a fictional book. It doesn’t contain any story but is full of quotes, poems, notes and letters. It is divided into three phases Loving, breaking and loving again or healing. Author has put right amount of words in each quote which can touch youngster’s heart.

Appearance of the Book

The book is of black colour. Publisher and Author chose the colour cleverly as black is favourite of most of the youngsters. There is white text on it showing Book’s name and Author’s name. In background you may see some greyish words which are picked from book. The cover looks like main title with subtitles. It looks like a black room where words are roaming around you. On whole the cover is good.

Loving

Sharad has given his best quotes in it. You will find lovely quotes and poem and there is letter also. Okay!!! I will not disclose the whole secret, thus this phase is amazing, little bit cheesy but would be effective for those who are in that phase and one will relive this phase. There is a quote which I personally loved,” Before loving any human being, love those eyes, those expressions, that body, just love every aspect of you first”. Moreover there are poems and letters.

Breaking

Next, the cycle of life moves to breaking and this phase is none less than Arjit Singh’s song. Totally broken would connect this. Every thought, every word is so piercing that the one who never got into that would connect. On my opinion it is the best part. There are quotes, notes and poem by the writer.

Loving Again

Last part is moving on, loving again or we can say healing. Its just like motivating broken hearts to stand again and love, love the one who values your emotion. This part is good. There is no poem or letter which i was expecting.

Online Availability

I ordered this book from Amazon availing @Rs199. At Amazon ratings are 4.5 stars, and book is on 2401 at best seller ranking. Publishers of the book are Half Baked Beans. It was published on 20 August 2019. The sellers were D unique, they packed the book very efficiently and neatly and provided personalised note and book mark. *You can see this in image given below*. I would like to give 9/10 ratings for the book.

Conclusion

On whole, the book is full of quotes, poems and letters which signifies how three phases that are loving, breaking and loving again is to be felt. The people who love books with short content to read is best for them. I hope you enjoyed reading.

Thanks for reading us!

Keep smiling!

Lots of love.

Rinki khanna

Smile

Hey readers!

Smile, we often listen it is beautiful curve that everyone loves. Yes that’s true, the more we smile the more we look beautiful. Its psychologically proven that Smiling brings glow to your face positivity in your words and attitude.

*If you are happy, you will bring smile on sad faces t*oo.

Why to smile always?

Nothing can dim your light which shines from within. – Maya Angelou. There would be lot of trouble around you, everything in your life seemed to be collapsing. The only thing which can help you in facing that problem is your smile. It reduces the tension inside you and gives you positive vibes. Smile hard to survive in this beautiful world because when you will smile you will find that world is the happiest place.

Not only for yourself but for spreading it.

If you have only one smile in you, give it your love. – Maya Angelou. I have read somewhere if spread or share your happiness it increases. And it is true, as i am sharing my happiness with you it would increase and my soul would be more happier than me. Today everyone has stressed life they need smile but had no clue how to be. Share yours and see how your happiness increases.

I hope you all would be smiling after reading this.

Keep smiling!

Lots of love.

Rinki Khanna

The Journey Begins

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Good company in a journey makes the way seem shorter. — Izaak Walton

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